An Attitude of Gratitude

November marks the beginning of the holiday season for me. I get excited about cooking my family's favorite foods, and seeing cousins, uncles, and nieces. Sometimes, the holidays get a little frustrating for me. The shopping malls are crowded, people seem to be in a rush, and I tend to get into a panic about finding the right present for my loved ones. Often, I have to take a deep breath and remind myself what the holidays are all about. There is a "reason for the season" as people say; my reason is to be grateful. I am most grateful for my family, my health, and my home.

My family is the most precious thing I own. It is mine. My daughters are unique individuals and are growing up to be the most sincere and humble human beings I know. Whoever marries them will be lucky individuals indeed! My husband is loving and supporting, and always makes me laugh. His humor makes me relax and not worry over the little things in life.

Five years ago, I had a cancerous tumor removed. I remember hearing the doctor say; "You have cancer". I thought my life was coming to an end. Well,  surgery removed the tumor and I was on my way to recovery. This event helped me to realize that my health is precious and my responsibility is to take care of my body, so that when I get sick again, my body will know how to fight against disease. Exercising regularly and eating well is important to me and I thank God everyday for each new day I am given.

I realize that my home is a possession that can be destroyed or taken away. A home is something that is replaceable, unlike my family; however, my home is my sanctuary.  I love being home. I love cooking, cleaning, gardening, and taking care of chickens and fruit trees. I am thankful that my home has been able to provide shelter and love for people outside of my immediate family. Sharing my home with others has been my greatest joy.

As the holidays approach, I will enjoy the celebrations, the presents, and the food. I will cherish the time I get to spend with my young nieces and nephews and their children. All the while, I will be grateful and give thanks everyday for the many blessings I have in my loved ones, my well being, and the dwelling I can share with other people.